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RANDOM: Jealousy, Intentions & Co.

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Since nobody owns anyone, one thing is for sure, there is no valid reason for someone to feel jealous, ever.  Jealousy is a useless feeling born out of fear and insecurity, that will eventually drain out the energy of the person who feels it.  If someone worries that someone else might come and steal away their partner, then maybe they should not be in that " situationship " in the first place. If you cannot trust your partner, the foundation is already broken.  Disclaimer: To avoid any fucked up feelings, look for someone who has the same intentions or goals as you do.  Want a relationship? Look for someone who also wants to commit and has a real interest in you. Chose someone willing to be loyal to you despite the fact that you both are surrounded by other "hot, take me to bed" alternatives. Get to know each other, build up respect & trust as those are the foundation for love. Butterfly feelings come and go but a moral foundation and strong character remain. S...

Brain on drugs: LUST at first sight

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You can almost feel his eyes setting tu  c uerpo on fire each time he's looking at you and now you're wondering about the taste of the coffee on his lips as that's what's he's drinking...Wanna wrap yourself around his body and hold him like a phyton...  The first time you saw him, you exchanged a few words, then your mind clicked and now you hear violins in the background when he speaks random stuff to you :P Love? Lust? You fall in lust with what your eyes see and in love with what your heart sees. I genuinely believe that the expression "love at first sight" should be replaced with "lust at first sight" :) Why? As in the very beginning, it's the intense physical attraction that hits you with all the feel-good chemicals in your brain, it's not love. Some studies suggest that in this phase, the brain is much like a brain on drugs. MRI scans illustrate that the same area lights up when an addict gets a fix of cocaine as when a person is e...