Alpha Tuxedo

Usually, people who don't feel confident or happy about themselves, turn to gossip, and negative judgment of others. The root cause for gossip is 99% a mix of jealousy & insecurities. Another reason why people gossip is because they can't create entertaining discussions based on their knowledge or ideas. Below are ten reasons why gossip is toxic for you: 1. It will make you a BITCH with a lack of consideration for others feelings 2. It will show that you are jealous and insecure 3. It will make you less trustworthy 4. It destroys your integrity 5. It will ruin relationships and reputations (including yours) 6. Who gossips with you, will gossip of you 7. It hurts people 8. It's a waste of time and energy 9. It's guilt-inducing 10. It's heart bittering  What can you do to avoid gossip? Drop out conversations that lead to gossip, change the subject of the conversation, leave behind toxic people who gossip as a hobby.

“Envy is a lack of appreciation of our own uniqueness and self-worth. Each one of us has something to give that no one else has.” – unknown Well... today there are so many "influencers" that share tips and tricks on how to put on your make up like you have a master degree in that, or on how to get dressed and walk like you're on the runway even while you're just out taking the trash, plus many other crazy interesting stuff but nobody ever shares any kind of advice on how to NOT be a freaking envious bitch. S o... I decided to share some of my personal "tips and tricks" on how to  stop that green demon eat up your soul like I used to eat fast food!  Here are my thoughts on how I manage to sincerely celebrate other’s beauty, success, or accomplishments. I do not envy others because I am not in competition with them. I do not envy others because I do not compare myself to them. We are all unique and unicity is not to be compared, if it was, it would be comparin...

I am. And yes, of course, you are, she is, he is and they are too. We all are! Beauty comes in different shapes, colors, and sizes, still the World and Media tried to standardize it. This is a matter of taste and the truth is, some things can be standardized while some, simply cannot be. For instance, just because the chocolate flavor is massively preferred, that does not make strawberry or lemon flavor less attractive to the ones who enjoy it. Beauty is diverse and this is great, so let us all enjoy it! Comparison to others is toxic, the only person we are supposed to compete with is ourselves in order to better and grow. Ask yourself "How can I get to be the best version of myself?" and take action! Embrace what makes you unique, different. There is a saying " Nobody is you and that is your power "! Love,  Andreea Carmen