Tips & Tricks: How to NOT be an envious bitch

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“Envy is a lack of appreciation of our own uniqueness and self-worth. Each one of us has something to give that no one else has.” – unknown


Well... today there are so many "influencers" that share tips and tricks on how to put on your make up like you have a master degree in that, or on how to get dressed and walk like you're on the runway even while you're just out taking the trash, plus many other crazy interesting stuff but nobody ever shares any kind of advice on how to NOT be a freaking envious bitch.

So... I decided to share some of my personal "tips and tricks" on how to stop that green demon eat up your soul like I used to eat fast food! 

Here are my thoughts on how I manage to sincerely celebrate other’s beauty, success, or accomplishments.

I do not envy others because I am not in competition with them. I do not envy others because I do not compare myself to them. We are all unique and unicity is not to be compared, if it was, it would be comparing apples to oranges.

Do not compare or compete with anyone else but yourself. Become your best self.

I do not envy other’s possessions and success because I am confident that I can get my own. I can take care of myself and reach my own goals.

Be confident in your own skills and set up realistic goals. Stay focused and motivated to accomplish them.

I do not envy other’s beauty as I am aware that we are all beautiful. It’s up to us to work with ourselves in order to become our best version. 

Ah! There is no news for me that my words above are trash to some, that's why I keep interested only in the people who are on the same wavelength as me. Why? Because I have the power to! :)

It’s simple! Confidence has no room for jealousy or envy. 





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