RANDOM: Jealousy, Intentions & Co.

Since nobody owns anyone, one thing is for sure, there is no valid reason for someone to feel jealous, ever. 

Jealousy is a useless feeling born out of fear and insecurity, that will eventually drain out the energy of the person who feels it.

 If someone worries that someone else might come and steal away their partner, then maybe they should not be in that "situationship" in the first place. If you cannot trust your partner, the foundation is already broken. 

Disclaimer: To avoid any fucked up feelings, look for someone who has the same intentions or goals as you do. 

Want a relationship? Look for someone who also wants to commit and has a real interest in you. Chose someone willing to be loyal to you despite the fact that you both are surrounded by other "hot, take me to bed" alternatives. Get to know each other, build up respect & trust as those are the foundation for love. Butterfly feelings come and go but a moral foundation and strong character remain.

Still, never out rule that people are people and in time, feelings, desires, intentions might change. Check on the regular if you both are on the same track. Things will last when there is involvement from both sides. 

If things might change, and one of the partners will want to start over, honest communication between each other will be in most cases the reason to maintain a friendship.

Wanna have fun? No commitment? Look for someone who wants to have fun just as you do. Look for someone who wants to live the moment as you do, without having to deal with emotional engagement.

No matter what you look for just be fucking honest about your intentions, this has to go both ways.

Some people put on "masks" and lie about their intentions, but those masks fail the test of time. So take your time to learn about that someone, don't rush with false hopes and expectations. 

Learn if that person has the same aim as you do before you invest feelings. 

If the intentions are not true, their effort and interest will fade out quickly.

Also, keep away from deceiving yourself by imagining things that are not true about the person you are interested in. Some imagine their crushes or partners to be in an emotional "place" similar to theirs only because they would want their partners to feel the same as they do.

We should all learn to be grateful for the things others are willing to give us freely, no matter if it's love, experiences, or just simply life lessons. Those will eventually contribute to our personal growth.